The Meaning of ‘No’ In Relationships
January 13, 2010
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While recently waiting on line in a crowded store, I overheard a bit of a friendly, flirty conversation between two young cashiers. The young man
Dr. Suzanne B. Phillips
Licensed Psychologist, Psychoanalyst, Diplomate in Group Psychology, Certified Group Therapist, Author, Radio Host and Media Consultant Covering a Wide Range of Psychological Topics
Problem Solving For Couples
January 3, 2010
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“Does problem solving in a relationship mean that someone is always giving up or giving in?” We hope not! A couple’s ability to address issues
Couples, Family Bonds, and Family Binds
December 27, 2009
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From a couple’s perspective , there is probably no group that offers them as much support as family and no group that at times creates
Secrets, Lies and Relationships
December 18, 2009
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Given the Tiger Woods situation, there is really no place to go where you don’t hear some version of “She knew, he knew, he knew
Making and Dealing With Changes in Your Relationship
December 14, 2009
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Most relationships do not remain static. Whether intended or not the lives of partners and the life they share inevitably change. Sometimes changes are desired
Handling Traumatic Memories in Your Relationship
December 6, 2009
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The scene of the accident, the image the IED exploding in Iraq, the feeling of being surrounded by rising water, the wave of dizziness
Thoughts About The Impact of the 9/11 Conspiracy Trials
November 30, 2009
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Recently, a foreign correspondent contacted me to ask what thoughts I had about the impact of the 9/11 conspiracy trials on New Yorkers. Her question
Facing Thanksgiving Together After Trauma
November 24, 2009
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One of the unique things about Thanksgiving as a holiday is that on that day most people across the country, from all ethnic, cultural, religious
Making Forgiveness Possible In Your Relationship
November 17, 2009
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We have discussed in earlier blogs the impact of trauma on relationships, reconsidering the anger in your relationship, communication for anger management, the impact of
Renewing and Reclaiming Sexual Intimacy in Your Relationship
November 5, 2009
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It takes more than just showing up to renew and reclaim a good sexual relationship. Would you just show up on the dance floor to